How family can help you buy a house in NZ
Parents and family can help you buy a house by giving or lending you money, linking their savings to your offset mortgage, guaranteeing your loan, taking out a joint loan with you or buying with you. Here's how each works.
By Jason Dark, updated 11 November 2026
The short version
- Family can give you money, lend it to you, link their savings to your offset mortgage, guarantee part of your loan, take out a joint loan with you or buy the home with you.
- NZ hasn't had gift duty since 1 October 2011, but banks usually ask for a signed gift certificate.
- Whether money from your parents is a gift or a loan matters if your relationship ends. The law presumes it's a gift unless there's evidence it was a loan.
- Kiwibank, Westpac and BNZ let parents link their savings to your offset home loan, so you pay less interest while your parents keep their money.
How can family help you buy a home?
Family can help in any of these ways:
- Give you money towards your deposit.
- Lend you money, which you pay back.
- Link their savings to your offset mortgage, so you pay less interest.
- Guarantee part of your loan, using their home as extra security.
- Take out a joint loan with you for part of your deposit.
- Buy the home with you.
Different options suit different families. Some need your parents to have cash, while others need them to own a home with plenty of equity, and each one carries its own risks for them.
Giving you money
The simplest way is a gift towards your deposit. NZ hasn't had gift duty since 1 October 2011, so there's no tax on the gift itself. Your bank will want proof the money doesn't need to be paid back. BNZ, for example, asks for evidence like a gifting certificate.
A gift has one big catch. If you buy with a partner and later break up, money your parents gave you can become relationship property and be split between you.
Lending you money
Your parents can lend you money instead, with an agreement about when and how you'll pay it back. ANZ gives the example of a couple whose parents lent them part of their deposit at an interest rate that worked for everyone. They all used their own lawyers to set up a formal loan agreement, and the couple pays their parents back every fortnight. A loan like this is often written up as a deed of acknowledgement of debt.
Your bank will count your repayments to your parents when it works out what you can afford. A properly recorded loan can also protect your parents' money. Law firm Denham Bramwell explains that if a relationship ends, a loan may be repaid to the parents before the couple splits their property, while a gift may be split. The law presumes money from parents to children is a gift unless there's evidence it was a loan. So if your parents want their money back, they should get legal advice before signing a bank's gift certificate.
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Ask an adviserLinking their savings to your mortgage
If your parents have savings but don't want to give them away, they can link their accounts to your offset home loan at Kiwibank, Westpac or BNZ. The money stays in their name, and they can take it back whenever they need it. While it's linked, it doesn't earn them interest, but it lowers the interest you pay. With $80,000 linked, about 10% of the national median house price, you'd save about $3,990 a year compared with a 4.99% fixed rate.
The offset mortgage guide shows which family accounts each bank accepts and what to watch out for.
Guaranteeing your loan
With a guarantee, a family member agrees to cover some or all of your loan if you can't pay, and their home is used as extra security. The guarantee costs them nothing upfront, and it can mean you need a smaller deposit or can borrow more. ASB says another property can be used as security, and it'll check whether you can afford the repayments and look at the LVR.
The risk falls on your family. BNZ says that if they can't cover the guaranteed amount, their home could be sold to repay your loan. ANZ checks that the guarantor can afford it, and the guarantor must get independent legal advice before signing.
Taking out a joint loan with you
Some banks let parents share just part of your loan. With Westpac's Family Springboard, you borrow the rest of your deposit in a smaller loan in both your name and your family's name, secured by both homes. Your own loan, for up to 80% of the house, can be in your name only. Your family must own their home, and both properties need to be with Westpac.
BNZ calls this family assisted lending. You take out a larger loan in your own name and a smaller joint loan with your parents. They're only liable for the joint loan, and they can see its balance in Internet Banking.
Buying the home together
You can also buy with family and share the deposit and repayments. At Kiwibank, co-owners usually all borrow on one joint loan, and each person is responsible for the whole loan, not just their share. If at least one of you will live in the home, you'll generally need a combined 20% deposit.
Get legal advice first
Whichever way your family helps, everyone should get their own legal advice, and for a guarantee it's required. If you're buying with a partner, a contracting out agreement can set out what happens to your family's money if you separate. Write down what everyone agreed, so there's no confusion later about whether money was a gift or a loan.
Common questions
Can my parents give me money for a house deposit in NZ?
Yes, your parents can give you money towards your deposit, and there's no gift duty. Your bank will usually ask for a signed gift certificate showing the money doesn't need to be paid back.
Is there gift duty in NZ?
No. Gift duty was abolished for gifts made on or after 1 October 2011.
Should parents gift or lend money for a house deposit?
That depends on whether they want the money back and how much they want to protect it. If you and your partner separate, a gift can become relationship property. A properly documented loan may be repaid to your parents first. Your parents should get legal advice before signing anything, including a bank's gift certificate.
What is a family guarantee?
A family guarantee is when a family member, usually a parent, agrees to cover some or all of your loan if you can't pay, and their home is used as extra security. A guarantee can mean you need a smaller deposit, but their home could be sold if neither of you can pay.
Want to talk to a mortgage adviser?
A licensed mortgage adviser will look at your situation and tell you which rates and loan options you might qualify for. This advice is free.
Sources
- ANZ: How your family could help you buy your first home
- BNZ: Getting help from family
- Westpac: Family Springboard
- Westpac: Buying with family and friends
- Kiwibank: Buying with friends and family
- ASB: Can I use my parent's house as security or use a guarantor?
- Inland Revenue: Gift duty abolition
- Denham Bramwell: Family loans, gifts, and breakups
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